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W for Weddings
You really do meet the weird and the wonderful in this business, and I’ve experienced my fair share. A few years back I was trying to help an unusual character with his debt problems when his ‘tame’ grey parrot started chewing my shoe. Another time, I thought the animals in one house I visited smelt a bit strongly – only to be evacuated by a gas man who informed me there was a huge gas leak...
A potentially wonderful experience, i.e. a wedding, can turn out negatively if the finances don’t add up right. Your wedding day is supposed to be the best of your life. For one couple I met, their wedding didn’t turn out to be quite the dream they’d hoped for.
Tina and Michael had been engaged for 18 months. During that time, the simple wedding they’d planned had somehow become a luxurious extravaganza. The simple dress Tina’s mother had wanted to pass down to her was replaced by a handmade designer dress, and the bridesmaids increased from a manageable three to eight.
Michael fell in love with a talented jazz band – the only problem was they were almost fully booked, and were only persuaded to perform at the wedding after he offered double their standard fee.
The food, too, had to be perfect. Michael and Tina finally agreed on caviar canapés, and bottles and bottles of champagne.
The couple worked hard all their life – both had put some money aside for the occasion. But as the wedding became more and more elaborate, they found that turning to their credit cards was the easiest way to deal with the mounting debt.
Once the couple decided their two-course Wedding Breakfast looked a little light when compared to the wedding of Tina’s cousin they had attended five months earlier, they turned to a short term loan, which would allow them to extend their two courses to five.
During the run up to the wedding money seemed a bit tight but they were just about making their repayments. It was only after the wedding, on their honeymoon in the Seychelles, the situation changed. One credit card was declined, then another and another. Finally, Michael rang his dad – who wired him a short term loan.
I met them the day they flew back, pale underneath their tans. After negotiating with their short-term creditor, I helped them create a monthly repayment plan. I know this wasn’t the ideal way they wanted to enter married life, but had they not faced up to their wedding debt, it could have been a lot worse.

